Travesti, transgenre, transsexual
Et bien je poste ceci :
I think that sexual fantasy is the best way to tell if you are trans
Because in the fantasy you are free. Nobody will make fun of you or tell you are a freak. So the social stigma is lower.
The fantasy is under the control of the DRIVE. You can not change the drive and the drive does not lie.
By sexual fantasy I do not mean a fantasy in a list of fantasies you find exciting like sex in a car or sex with 2 people.
I mean THE fantasy. What is ALWAYS here. The image without which you can NOT come or even not think about sex.
In my case I NEVER see myself with a dick in my fantasy. I am always a female, I have a pussy and I am penetrated or touched by a hairy man (most of time with no face).
I think that this is a strong sign that I am trans and at least 1 of my 2 shrinks agrees that people with a gender that is masculin do not see themselves as women in their fantasies.
In real life I feel MUCH better in bed with a man in the woman’s bottom role than with a woman in the top man’s role. Actually I have NO drive to use my dick to penetrate anyone and had sex with women mostly because I was in love with them.
I was also virgin till 22 with women (despite many women wanted me as I was looking good and I was intelligent) without feeling bad (never kissed anyone before !) and started sex with men at 33 only to be able to be a woman in bed because in my fantasy I am a woman. Now, after 10 years of sex with men, I would like to be in love with man but I do not feel attracted by men, I am rather auto-erotic or may be my male body is a problem to meet men and to love them. I suspect that I do not like to see naked men because I see myself, I see what I do NOT want to be.
What do you think of that ?
Et je me fais virer du site !!!!!
En gros, chez les trans, il y a une pensée unique : celle qui consiste à parler le moins possible de sexe car genre et sexualité ca n’a selon la ligne directrice des associations trans RIEN à voir !
Si on parle de sexe comme de quelque chose lié au genre alors on est qualifié de cis sexist et de personne qui ne pige rien !
Si genre et fantasme sexuel n’a rien à voir, alors pourquoi se couper la bite sachant que la bite a 2 fonctions : pisser et baiser !
Qui a envie de pisser assis ? Pas ceux qui y sont obligés ! Pas les femmes, elles aimeraient pisser debout quand c’est plus pratique de pisser debout !
Si on se coupe la bite c’est qu’en fantasme on a une chatte et qu’on veut pouvoir avoir une sexualité réelle qui colle avec la sexualité en fantasme.
Sinon pourquoi se couper la bite ? Pour porter des slips moulants ?